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The 7 Phrases That Change Everything (When Someone's Struggling)

Carolyn Frost
Dr. Carolyn Frost



I noticed I was doing this the other day with my 13 year old daughter....

 

Rushing to offer solutions when she shared something difficult.

 

My mind raced to find the "perfect" thing to say, as if the right words could magically fix everything.

 

Then I remembered how it feels when someone does that to me.

 

How sometimes, the quick advice makes me feel even more alone.

 

The truth?

 

Connection isn't found in perfect solutions.

 

It's created in those quiet moments when we truly show up for each other.

 

What if the most powerful thing you could say has nothing to do with advice at all?

 

 

✨ I N S P I R E

 

In hard times, people don't want to be told to look on the bright side. They want to know you're on their side.

 

Even if you can't help them feel better, you can always help them feel seen.

 

The best way to support others is not to cheer them up. It's to show up.

 

-Adam Grant

 

 

 ✨ T H R I V E

 

Real connection isn't about perfect words.

It's about showing up with intention.

 

7 phrases that change everything:

 

1.) "I hear you, and I'm right here"

↳ Turn your body toward them. Put devices away.

↳ Physical presence is a powerful stress reducer.

 

2.) "What's on your mind? I'm listening"

↳ Count to 8 silently after asking.

↳ Real thoughts emerge in the pause.

 

3) "This matters. You matter"

↳ Place a glass of water or tissues nearby.

↳ Physical nurturing creates emotional safety.

 

4) "You don't have to solve this right now"

↳ Breathe with them.

↳ Matched breathing patterns build subconscious trust.

 

5) "What kind of support do you need?"

↳ Give two options: "Need someone to listen or help?"

↳ Use this with your kids!

 

6) "I'm checking in because you're important to me"

↳ Send voice notes instead of texts.

↳ Human voice reduces stress hormones.

 

7) "Thank you for trusting me with this"

↳ End with acknowledgment.

↳ Naming the trust strengthens it.

 

The strongest support isn't about having answers.

It's about having the courage to listen

 

Have a great week friends,

Carolyn

 

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